The bottom line is, if your girlfriend is pissed about something, never tell her to calm down ... move on his angry girlfriend. Asking someone to calm down when they are pissed, is an extreme ...

It also gives them an opportunity to rephrase or soften their words. This is a polite way of telling someone to calm down, gather their thoughts, and speak to you in a respectful and logical manner.

Examples included "I have been disrespected," "Someone told me to calm down" and "Someone accused me of being angry when speaking assertively." Nearly two in five women (38%) reported at least one ...