Ciara and Russell Wilson are working on their ninth year of marriage and seem to be going on as strong as ever. Ciara just revealed the secret to keeping their bond strong. The singer and the Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback have been married since July of 2016 and have three children together and share one from Ciara’s previous relationship.

Ciara and her son were a package deal. In 2015, Ciara met Wilson at a basketball game, which led to a dinner date. She was immediately impressed by how he embraced her as a woman

Ciara, 39, and Wilson, 36, have been married since 2016. In addition to Amora, the two share daughter Sienna, 7, and son Win, 4. Ciara also has an older child, 10-year-old Future, from her previous relationship with the rapper of the same name.