DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I often share a bottle of wine at a restaurant. After the first glass, he doesn’t wait for the server, just pours himself more. He will go out of his way to finish the bottle, even if it means overfilling his glass. He responds to my shocked look with, “If you want any more, you can drink from my glass.”

My husband and I often share a bottle of wine at a restaurant. After the first glass, he doesn’t wait for the server, just pours himself more. He responds to my shocked look with, “If you want any more,

He will go out of his way to finish the bottle, even if it means overfilling his glass. I think this is incredibly rude.

Miss Manners believes you agree that it is not a crime to finish the bottle of wine you ordered. She further assures you that refilling the glasses yourselves, without the help of the waiter, is acceptable.